Q💭Do you hold a grudge ?
A🦋 Honestly, I’d be a liar if I said I didn’t feel some type of way about the way people have disrespected me in the past and when I think about it I still reflect on how they had me messed up lol ?
Yes I hold grudges
Until amends have been made whether by the other person or by my own doing but I don’t forget nor do I tolerate disrespect on any level. And I’m tired of people telling you how to feel about how others have wronged you. When will the day come that people stop being monsters or allow victims to feel their pain.
I feel one particular grudge I held
Was finally able to be amenddd by my own doing when I realized that some people are cowards and will never apologize. And I don’t respect cowards. So I finally was able to allow myself to accept the action without an apology and I finally forgave the person even if they don’t deserve it.